Did you know what the most powerful affirmation in the universe is? Were you even aware that most of you reading this article practice almost every single day, perhaps unintentionally and perhaps without the faintest idea of what it can lead to? In fact, the practice is so common that even those who have absolutely no clue what an affirmation is, also practice it with unfailing regularity and possibly guaranteed outcomes.
The New Age Wikipedia states that “Affirmations in New Thought and New
Age terminology refer primarily to the practice of positive thinking and
self-empowerment—fostering a belief that a positive mental attitude supported
by affirmations will achieve success in anything." What it perhaps fails to mention is that owing
to the fact that affirmations is merely the assertion that something exists or
is true, it is not just positive thoughts, but also negative thoughts that can
be affirmed.
Affirmations
become powerful when –
1. One visualizes the outcome
2. Feels in one’s physiology as if it were happening now
3. Ponders in a manner where it were congruent in the present
Affirmations (which
are suggestions and commands to your subconscious mind) are maximum in
Theta, optimal in Alpha and relatively ineffective in Beta.
Now, here is the kicker! Eager
to know what the most powerful affirmation is, which many of us indulge in
every single day? Worrying.
Worrying is one activity that keeps you busy reaching nowhere. And many of us indulge in it, or even revel
in it (pardon my English) every single day!
And a few paragraphs below, allow
me to explain why so many of us have the propensity to turn worry into reality!
“Worry never robs tomorrow of its sorrow, it only saps today of its
joy.” – Leo F. Buscaglia.
“Our fatigue is often caused not by work, but by worry, frustration and
resentment.” – Dale Carnegie
“Worry is a thin stream of fear trickling through the mind. If
encouraged, it cuts a channel into which all other thoughts are drained.” –
Arthur Somers Roche
“Worry is like a rocking chair: it gives you something to do but never
gets you anywhere” – Erma Bombeck
“A day of worry is more exhausting than a day of work.” – John Lubbock
Now spend a little time re-reading the above article with respect to
affirmations, when and how they gain power and about worry as an activity. Uptil now, you have no clue what we are doing
to ourselves! And also make sure, before
you proceed further, that you have read the
previous post on this blog, just so you understand every little bit of what
I am expounding right below.
Before you proceed, presuming you have at least now read the previous
post on this blog, you also need to familiarize yourself with two fancy
technical terms, viz., Hypnopompic
and Hypnagogic Peridos.
These two periods basically refer to the shot period when you wake up
in the morning and fall asleep at night.
When you fall asleep, you go from Beta to Delta through Alpha and Theta
and when you awaken, you go from Delta to Beta through Theta and Alpha
states. Twice each day, you are
unintentionally connected to your subconscious mind, which is the seat and
reservoir of all the programming
you do.
So, at least twice each day, even if you were not a practitioner of Nirmiti Nidra
or meditation, you have an irrevocable opportunity to program your subconscious
mind whilst in the Alpha or Theta State.
Now, contemplate on what you do when you go to bed worrying or when you
wake up in the morning worrying!
You SUCCEED!
At -
1. Fulfilling the criteria for connecting with your subconscious
(unintentionally) optimally by being in the Theta or Alpha state of mind.
2. Programming it with your
worries (thoughts) becoming affirmations (positive or negative)
3. Empowering the Affirmations
further by visualizing and feeling the emotions and adding fuel to the fire, by
imagining as if it were in the present.
Is it a wonder then that most of your fears come true? I have also
had people feeling proud of the fact that their apprehensions actually
fructified. Really!
Worrying is a waste of time (irrespective of what nomenclature you use
to describe the phenomenon). Planning,
however, is a necessity to alleviate future anxiety. Stop worrying! Start living! And, remember you can never displace
thoughts, only replace them.
“According to Vedanta, there are only two symptoms of enlightenment,
just two indications that a transformation is taking place within you toward a
higher consciousness. The first symptom is that you stop worrying. Things don't
bother you anymore. You become light-hearted and full of joy. The second
symptom is that you encounter more and more meaningful coincidences in your
life, more and more synchronicities. And this accelerates to the point where
you actually experience the miraculous. (quoted by Carol Lynn Pearson in
Consider the Butterfly)” ― Deepak
Chopra, Synchrodestiny: Harnessing the Infinite Power of Coincidence to Create
Miracles
The
author, Rajesh Seshadri, is an internationally recognized Certified Leadership
Coach, Certified Success Coach and Certified Life Coach. He is also a NLP Master Practitioner,
facilitator and therapist. The basket of
therapies is holistic and integrative adopting techniques from Psychotherapy,
NLP, Silva, Gestalt, Hypnosis and Silva UltraMind. Additionally, he is a
seasoned corporate professional who continues to serve as a whole-time Director
and Board Member. You can contact him here.
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